A Diver's Logbook
A designer/ furniture specialist/ scuba diver's logbook... this records her experiences/ frustrations/ successes/ failures and much more.

Understanding Silence

R contacted me after 6 years! Wow.. L, we have been in minmal contact la.. He left in year 3 and andR left in year 2. Omg R gained 30 kgs. And L, he's the same.. E and R came along too. It was a great time catching up as both guys were sooo humorous. I was glad that they all said I was the only one they remembered. I've always liked L. He's just this really cool older men I trusted in scool. He was a loner, but he opened up to me. R was the underdog,athletic always in jersey but now.. He says he's ashamed to take off his shirt cos he has moobs or breast. Haha.

Then only L and E remained and we had a good heart to heart talk. :) talked about how E was a lesbian and L admitted he was gay. It came out so clean. Everyone was so honest with each other, no body was judgemental! Shared about our relationships, work and businesses. And best of all..

L understands! He's also is in a relationship with a guy 12 yrs his senior. And he knows how sometimes we the younger ones get rebelious and somewhat agitate our guy, but always rest in knowing that he forgives and still loves.. His guy owns a gallery in paragon. Himself he owns his own interior design. company and he's been doing well for 6 years! L said he didnt remember me as someone who likes to draw or paint, he remembered me to be techie.

it was a a good dinner. A really genuine one. :) im happy.. And sleepy. Heh. E brought me a magnet many years ago for my birthday.. and it said. "friends are family we choose for ourselves" indeed... :)


Regards
Jodi Chen
+65 82684285

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